
Obviously, I'm learning to better handle my expenses, but at the same time, I want to spend quality time with my girlfriend. Not spending money is a little far-fetched, but I came up with some ways that you can save money on those ever-growing relationship expenditures.
1. Red Box - This little thing was the best invention of the new millennium. Aside from their convenient locations, they offer the best deal for movie rentals available. While you are at the grocery store (saving money cause you're not eating out), you can stop by these wonderful machines and get new rental DVDs for just a dollar a night. Coupled with a cool recipe, you've got yourself a cheap dinner and a movie.
2. Local Attractions - Nearly every city has somewhere for you to go and take a walk or browse for free. If you can get past the gas prices, you can find cheap accommodations in your back yard. Not to mention how caring and thoughtful your girlfriend will consider you for making the suggestions. I'm from the DC metropolitan area, so we have monuments and museums at our fingertips to (freely) explore.
3. Just above fast food restaurants - If you must eat out, consider your options. I don't know about all girls, but my girlfriend is just as happy eating at Chipotle, as she would be eating at Ruby Tuesdays. Find restaurants where you serve yourself, like Panera Bread or Noodles and Company. These are great places that are a little better than fast food, but not as pricey as a dine-in restaurant. Budget right and save the nicer restaurants for special occasions. Not only will you save money, but then your special occasions are actually "special".
4. DVR - If you have cable, I'd suggest a DVR box. I'm not a huge TV-buff, but having shows, that both my girlfriend and I can tolerate, readily available helps for us to find a common ground when we stay in the house. And the more time we spend in doors, the less money is needed.
5. Video Games - I know this sounds weird, but finding a game that both you and her can enjoy leads to hours and hours of entertainment. I spent $100 on Rock Band, but we've spent a countless number of hours playing it together on the weekends with friends, when we could be out spending money at bars.
6. Drink in - At our age, we still go out regularly. Although, I'm usually the Designated Driver, I'd suggest that if you are going to drink, drink in. You can mix drinks at your house, and a drink that would've costs you $12 can now cost you $3.
Whatever you do, the most important part of the process is communicating to your partner what your financial goals are so that you can work together toward the cause. If you just use a little creativity, you can still have a very spicy relationship without spending as much on it.
6 comments:
If you really want to save money using video games, get into World of Warcraft. You'll literally stop eating for months, but you'll also lose your job.
have you ever considered the principle of giving? a major retailer, Target, returns at least 5% of its income to the community on a weekly basis. they understand that their wealth and growth is tied to the the common welfare of the community.
I've heard so much about World to Warcraft, but I've never really gotten into it. My sister is addicted to it, which says enough for it already.
I always try to take advantage of days that museums offer free admission or pay-as-you-wish. Yes, it means more crowds and lines, but it's worth it to me.
Going along the lines of gaming (which I agree with as a great way to have fun with less money), if you share the same interests you could bond over those hobbies too - plus you could share books and dvds and such with each other.
Love the post especially since 2008 has been my first year with a real girlfriend. Prior to this year I was not exactly into exclusive relationships but now that I have tried it I love it.
What I love to do on summer days is to cook on the grill and hang out in the warm weather. In Canada one really learns to appreciate a warm summer evening.
Video games for couples... The Lego games. Advertised as "spouse friendly" meaning you can die and just come back into play easily. This set of games has kept me from becoming a disgruntled gaming widow!
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